Saturday, June 8, 2013

It depends



June 7, 2013

My bladder is letting me down. Now I understand that I have to get up, struggle down the wide open space to the hallway, through several doors, around the corner, in time to unbutton, unsnap, unzip and swing around to ungracefully grasp the sink ledge to plop down on the commode even before I realize I have to urinate. There is absolutely nothing graceful about it and I find myself yowling in frustration, more often than not, because I have not “made it” in time. I strip off my pants or shorts, and underwear with disgust and fury at my enemy, the bladder. The loss of control infuriates me. There is utter helplessness when my body starts to let me down. The clothes in the hamper then pile up and I begrudge the need to shuffle down, accompanied by my peg, and my bladder, to the basement and start the laundry. It is one thing to drag the basket behind me down the staircase and yet another to haul it the opposite direction.

My bladder puts me at an even greater disadvantage when I am riding in the car, heading out of town, or simply across town. Am at its mercy. My foot has to be perched on the seat next to me like a hateful cousin or ungracefully on the dash, still wrapped in a large bandage to keep the wounds sterile and dry. Keeping hydrated and iced is imperative, fulfilling my foot physical therapy exercise quota is also a necessity while worrying about financial matters, checking emails and glancing at job on-line perhaps three times per week. The home internet company has yet to relay any further information about the connection request and the modem has gone AWOL. 

My bladder is my companion in these few days flying solo and I resent its movie choices. What can I do? The library is too daunting a journey and I may not make it there without having to use the bathroom.

In the meantime, I refuse to wear Depends.

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