Sunday, April 14, 2013

Birthday party crasher



April 13, 2013
Friends gather round for a 50th birthday celebration at our old stompin’ grounds. Without a set of crutches or a cane I can maneuver my way around the tables and chairs of folks without being the victim of an ankle injury gone awry. I drink Summit Pale Ale and munch on crackers and bite-sized cheese blocks, crunching chips and flavorful salsa, avoiding the soaked mini-wieners, greasy fried chicken wings, saturated Swedish meatballs and other Midwest party favorites.  Rainbow Happy Birthday banners outline the borders of the Sports Bar and poster boards of a collage of photos from kindergarden-to-high school graduation line the tables. We roar over the outdated attire and helmet hairdos. The Midwest twang reverberates throughout the vast space. Polar bear hugs and hog squeals emit from the mouths of old friends and family as familiar faces emerge out of chubby cheeks and widening waistbands.
Unearthed medical conditions instigate long involved conversations of tragic cancer treatments, painful carpel tunnel recovery, never-ending back surgery complications and nausea-inducing Chemo injections absorb into long-sleeves, wool blazers and elastic-waist jeans. We replace our sympathy and exchange it for laughter and hilarious parlor jokes. Seventies music plays in the background while introductions and stories of how we met one another come together in the new play of relationship and belonging.
Photos of wide smiles and arms wrapped around one another are displayed on the camera screen. We have a membership to the club of friendship and chapter in the story to regurgitate upon our future meeting.

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